I briefly dated someone who disclosed my medical information without my consent, a violation that left me feeling upset and betrayed. My medical information, whether real or assumed, is mine alone, and no one has the right to use it against me.

I value honesty and believe in being open with my partners so they can fully understand my reality. At the same time, I deserve boundaries that protect my privacy and dignity.

She repeatedly disregarded those boundaries, turning personal moments into casual gossip rather than something meaningful. At times, it felt like I was dating not just her, but all of her friends as well, since they knew every detail of our time together.

In contrast, I once gave a waitress a gift, and she thoughtfully asked for my permission before discussing it with her co-workers. That small gesture left a lasting impression on me, demonstrating genuine respect.

Moving forward, I will prioritize relationships with people who respect my confidence and value my trust, knowing it will make a meaningful difference in my life.